What to do when there is a member in a group you don't like: The Do's and Don'ts

As an addition to my problems this last week of Ramadan, I have been tossing and turning trying to figure out what to do with members I don't like in a K-girl and boys group. some I've learned to like and others have further deepened my despise. I don't know if this is bad to say, but I'm sure many fans have felt that way, even about their favorite groups. It's very rare to like everyone in a group.

So I am here to explain all of the ways you can actively "not care" about the member you don't like.

Do's

1. Ignore them when they come on the screen. Look for your bias and wonder when they will talk again.
2. Mimic the way they talk.
3. Always put them last in a ranking of looks.
4. Make a nicknames for them in your head and scream it out when you see it.
5. Cringe violently when they do something cute.
6. Pass their pictures they post on social media for other fans to like.
7. Ask yourself why you don't like that member and why other people do. You might learn something about yourself.
8. If you have friends that bias that member, change the subject to your bias. Do hear them out once in a while.

Don'ts

1. Laugh when they do something funny.
2. Take it personally when they steal some of your bias's time.
3. Say any mean things about them to people.
4. As much as you want to, don't stare in off into the distance when people talk about them.

But sometimes,
You have to acknowledge the member when they sing well, dance well, look good enough for your approval. After all we are the consumers but when something good happens for the person you have to acknowledge it.

By making this post, I think I realized my stress of some of the things I was thinking about this week. I hope you guys don't take this the wrong way and learn some passive-aggressive ways to deal with your "non-bias". But always remember the Golden Rule:

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